A LADY MUST KNOW HOW TO SUBTLY SWERVE SÊXUAL ADVANCES THROWN AT HER.
It’s all good to be straight, direct and stern as a lady, but never underestimate the subtle tactics to swerve séxual advances in a way that still retains mutual respect between both parties even while you’re not interested.
So a friend of mine, a very good friend who’s far from my city had shared a case for me to help him handle, his other friend’s girlfriend is on a cross-road to loss her car in a deal gone bad.
A student had lost some money while copying her trades in forex, and he says she must sell her Benz to pay back his loss– this was never their agreement as while copying people in trading, your loss actually mean they (person you are copying) also lost.
So i linked her up with some friends who could help, but because of distance these other people had linked her with people in the direct office in-charge of the case.
On meeting them, She was happy, she called me to thank me for my effort, how i have helped her and all, in her words, “They’d give her the documents they’ve seized from her the following day as they said it was a simple matter and could be resolved amicably”.
Now, along the line, one of them had asked her if she could `play ball`, She was stern at him, throwing up all the many, “you know i’m engaged, i can’t do this, please if this is why you wanna help me, yada yada etc”
This girl, i don’t even know how she looked, i was only acting based on instruction from my dear friend to make sure i help her, on phone she sounds beautiful and obviously men will throw shots at her.
Right now, the case which was near resolution has been thwarted, and needs to be approached wisely.
I had to advise her, that she was wrong. It’s normal for men to throw advances at you, how you respond can make or mar you. In a case as yours, all you needed to do is say things like “Oh, you are a handsome man too, but seriously my mental health has been dealt with by this case, maybe if we fully resolve this i could think straight and make considerations, but if not possible, i will let you know. Surely, i will deeply appreciate your effort”.
I had told her, that such a subtle reply could keep whoever it is on the fence, as her main aim is to get her case resolved, that if push comes to shove, you link him up with a single friend of yours, it can’t getting any worse as case has been resolved.
There’s a saying, “You can argue and correct people without denting their integrity”.
Ladies into Real estate and Finance understands these tactics i’m talking about. Your main focus is to make that sale while keeping good relationship with the client, you can also turn down advances intelligently without denting their integrity.
~ Fidelis.
