“I have broken up with a lot of girls only because they wanted me to choose them over my mum.” Oxlade

“I have broken up with a lot of girls only because they wanted me to choose them over my mum.” Oxlade

“You could spend money on girls but you can’t spend money on your mum or send her to Mecca or Jerusalem, you’d post your mum on her birthday calling her my world, that’s not fair. I feel like the only way you can show your wealth is from your family’s flex. My mum comes first in my life and there is no way I can choose anyone over her” Oxlade

But come to think of it, most men don’t understand what women want. Women your competition is not our mothers. Those women gave birth to us and raise us to this point where you met us. For most men their mothers are everything. Your competition is the other woman trying to take away your man.

One of the easiest way to get a man love you is to love and respect his mother. A good woman will love and respect the mother of the man she loves. Avoid putting the man under pressure to choose on situations between you and his mother. That doesn’t mean a man should belittle his woman but mothers, especially in Africa are everything. No matter how beautiful and educated you are, you’re gonna leave if you can’t respect our mothers.

MORAL LESSON: Mothers are irreplaceable. Every other woman is replaceable. No carry our mama play ohh