A 29yr old lady has opened up about her feelings finding a man who would settle down with her.
According to her, she has never been focused to find true love as most of her relationships lasted just one month while the others are for few days.
She also said she is not after a man because of love but she wants to get married because of financial stability.
In a anonymous email, She wrote: “I’m a 29-year-old woman who has never really been in a serious relationship. I’ve had flings here and there, some that have lasted for months, and others that have just been for a few days.
I know that probably sounds strange to some people, but I’ve never really been focused on finding my one true love, or settling down in a happy, blissful marriage.
As far as I’m concerned, the only reason to get married is to ensure financial security. I’m happy on my own and don’t need to give up my time and energy on going out on dates with guys who aren’t going to be able to provide me with a more comfortable lifestyle than I’m able to give myself.
So when it comes to actually dating, I will only entertain advances from a guy if I know that he is bringing a sizable bank account to the table.
To me, this makes sense. But to my family and friends, I’m a ‘heartless gold digger’. They won’t stop going on about how I’m ‘using’ men for my own gain, and how ‘cruel’ it is to take such a hardline view of dating.
The thing is, I’m not lying to anyone. I’m not pretending that I’m head-over-heels in love with guys just because I think they’re rich. Nor am I seeking these men out. They come to me. And, if I think they’re worthy, I agree to go out on a date with them.
I don’t see that being a problem?
But after making the mistake of sharing my dating philosophy with my close friends and relatives, it’s all they can talk about. My mom has told me I need therapy, and my friends are now telling every guy they know to steer clear of me in case I try to drain their bank accounts.
How do I make everyone butt out of my business?.”
