Popular clergyman, Kingsley Okonkwo explains why some ladies find relationships which are peaceful and drama-free to be boring.
The preacher recalled an experience he gained from his recent US sojourn.
He stated that everything in the US was a stark opposite of what normal life is in Nigeria.
Such things as traffic, hawking, potholes were not to be found there and the easy, and problem-free nature of the US quickly became boring.
He revealed that at that point, it occurred to him that why he finds it boring was because he is already used to the stressful atmosphere of Nigeria.
He likened this experience with human relationships and noted that when a lady is already used to abuse, and drama she will find a peaceful one to be boring.
Kingsley Okonkwo wrote:
“So last year I had to stay in America for 6 weeks straight because of our 10 city tour, my children were with us so it felt like we lived in America.
“I was driving home to our accommodation one night and it felt really boring, no policemen doing illegal stops, no touts , no meaningless and mysterious traffic….
“No potholes, no one driving on wrong side of the road, no one crossing the highway dangerously or hawking …mehn it felt weird and boring.
“And it hit me, if you are used to abuse or drama you will find a peaceful and drama free relationship boring, if you are used to trouble peace will be awkward.”
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