SOME OF THE COSTLY MISTAKES THAT WIVES MAKE…✍🏾
1. PROLONGING SILENT TREATMENT WHEN OFFENDED TO SHOW YOU ARE ANGRY
This makes you and your husband used to not talking and makes you two draw further apart doing major damage to your communication. Even when he does wrong, get angry, but get to talk about it and forgive quickly
2. KILLING YOUR SOCIAL LIFE IN THE NAME OF BEING A GOOD WIFE
Don’t isolate yourself. Have mature friends to surround you, to grow with you as a wife. This makes your life richer, widens your worldview, challenges you and makes you less demanding on your husband’s time. Again, make sure the lady friends you keep are of good character. You need fellow women who will stand with you, iron sharpens iron
3. OVER REACTING OR GETTING EASILY ANGRY
When your husband reveals to you information and you over react or you become highly suspicious or critical of him, that will discourage him from sharing matters with you in future and he will begin to be secretive, not because he wants to but because he would rather avoid the toxic environment you bring when over reacting. Secrecy opens up a door to many dangers in your marriage
4. USING SEX AS A WEAPON
Never try to punish your husband by denying him sex. This will make him desire your sex less. Once your sex-life is damaged, your marriage will suffer. Never play games with sex
5. LISTENING TO OUTSIDE VOICES MORE THAN TO YOUR HUSBAND
You and your husband know your marriage and the issues concerning your marriage best, not your family or friends. When you listen to multiple voices to direct your marriage, you will get confused. The best person to talk to is your husband. Don’t make your husband feel you value more what others say than what he says
6. SHARING PERSONAL INFORMATION WITH OUTSIDERS
There are things to tell your friends and there are things best kept between you and your husband. Do not bad mouth your husband to the public. Don’t gossip about him. Cover him
