“The greatest mistake you can make as a man is Marry when you are broke“
Calm down and listen , there are women who will marry you when you are broke , but in their minds they have a period of time that they’ll tolerate your poverty . If after that period you’ve not yet made it , you will see their true colors . You will be disrespected, compared to others out there and your status as the man of the house will be ridiculed .
Do you think your woman will smile at you when there is no food home , kids hungry , kids driven away for feee and land lord knocking at the door? Even if they pretend to understand, it will not be forever . Women do not like men who who have problems. Do not get yourself into this , depression might finally kpai you .
Get your money right , marry and care for your woman and kids , don’t fall into the trap of “we can manage “, you’ll see shegeh and question yourself as a man . As life no easy for you as a single man , imagine how it’ll be with kids and wife and real life challenges 🤦♂️🥹. Yes there are women that come into your life and things change but there are few . It’s risky to depend on luck . Don’t try it .
