15 FOOLISH HABITS OF A BABY WIFE
1. GOING TO SLEEP IN KIDS’ OR SPARE BEDROOM OR SITTING ROOM WHEN THEY HAVE A MISUNDERSTANDING :
This is a sign of avoidance and unwillingness to resolve conflicts. A mature partner would stay and work through the issue, rather than running away from it. It’s being childish.
2. TELLING HER HUSBAND AS NOT MAN ENOUGH:
This is a form of emotional abuse and undermines the partner’s self-esteem. A mature partner would communicate constructively about issues without personal attacks. Very few men can survive this injury.
3. “THERE ARE MANY MEN OUT THERE WHO CAN MARRY ME WHEN I LEAVE THIS MARRIAGE”:
This is a threat and a form of emotional blackmail. A mature partner would address problems in the relationship directly and work towards a solution.
4. BEING QUICK TO GET angryY ABOUT EVERYTHING:
Excessive anger and overreaction to minor issues is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would respond with more patience and understanding.
5. CAN’T JUST FORGIVE, KEEPS HURTS IN HIS OR HER HEART:
Holding onto grudges and resentment is a barrier to healthy conflict resolution. A mature partner would be able to forgive and move forward.
6. ALWAYS BEING RIGHT , UNABLE TO ADMIT BEING WRONG :
Lack of humility and unwillingness to compromise is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would be open to different perspectives and willing to acknowledge their own mistakes.
7. LOVING PARENTS AND SIBLINGS MORE THAN SPOUSE:
This indicates a lack of emotional investment in the marriage and a failure to prioritize the spousal relationship.
8. FEELING ENTITLED TO EVERYTHING:
A sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would have a more balanced view of the give and take in a relationship.
9. FIGHTING SPOUSE’S FAMILY DIRTY:
Engaging in petty conflicts and disrespecting the spouse’s family is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would strive to maintain positive relationships with in-laws.
10. ISSUING THREATS OF DIVORCE , SEPARATION, OR VIOLENCE:
These are manipulative and abusive tactics that have no place in a healthy, mature relationship.
11. THINKING THEY ARE TOO IMPORTANT IN THE LIFE OF THEIR SPOUSES:
This indicates a lack of understanding of the importance of mutual respect and independence in a marriage.
12. BRAGGING ABOUT WHAT SHE IS DOING TO SUPPORT THE HUSBAND:
This suggests a need for external validation and a lack of genuine concern for the partner’s well-being.
13. GETTING MUTE ON THE HUSBAND JUST BECAUSE HIM LOOKED AT ANOTHER WOMAN AT THE MALL
If she caught her husband looking at a woman and appreciating her looks when they were together at a shopping mall, she stops talking to her husband for months, stops cooking his favorite meal and can’t even sleep on the same bed with him.
14. DARING HER HUSBAND TO GET ANOTHER WOMAN AS IF SHE DOESN’T CARE.
Daring a man to get another woman is not only childish but dangerous, because not every husband is a believer.
15. RESENTING KIDS BECAUSE HUBBY HID THEM FROM HER
When she discovers that her husband hid the fact that he had a child/children before meeting her, she immediately resents those kids.
MARRIAGE IS NOT CHILD’S PLAY.
